Posting your love ones on social media is fun. It shows you love your spouse, it shows how much fun you all are having and it allows you to share with family and friends. Birthdays are really great as people from all over wish you happy birthday and it makes you feel good on your special day. Anniversaries are shared and people appreciate seeing the love between two people in love. You post family activities of of town and overseas capturing the new experiences you have always dreamed of. Social media is a great place to stay connected with the ones you love. Some would say it is one of the greatest inventions to come along in a long time. That good ole social media!
There has been a topic going around talking about if your significant other doesn't post a picture of you on social media than they are hiding you, cheating on you or sharing time on social media with others of the opposite sex trying to hook up or to continue the hook up. We are all adults here and we know these things happen. It's one of those negatives that come along with social media, where there is good the bad always follows. Social media produces fake friends and we should all know that everyone isn't our friends, they are social media friends and some who claim to be our friends in real life are not true friends either. We have to be careful what we post on the social media platforms. Some post for monetary rewards, some post for family and friends and some post because they are bored and this helps them past the time, and then there are those who are on social media to kill, steal and destroy relationships.
There are a lot of people who do not post pictures of their significant others because they are aware of the social snakes that are out there lurking around. This men and women see a beautiful woman or handsome man and end up sending messages to them, you know the inappropriate ones. Men are proud of the woman they have at home and prefer not to put them on social media because they know the thirst is real and they rather not deal with the idiots on social media. The mature women feel the same way, they know these thirsty women are out here trying to lure their men over for some social media cheating. Once you post a picture of your attractive significant other on social media here come all the wolves in sheep clothing sending friend request to them, Why? They don't know them and they will never have a conversation with them. It's to ease into their DM's to see if they will cheat or entertain a conversation that will lead to cheating. It will be the ones you know in real life acting as if they are your friends stalking their videos and pictures, wishing they could have some of that forbidden love. Committed folks in relationships don't have time for that and don't have time to entertain that negative shit!
On the flips side there are people in relationships that love that attention and will go out and take a chance on hooking up with the social media thirst buckets. No matter how much their man or woman tell them how attractive they are or how much love they give to them, they still want more. They say they want to know if they still got it. Hell, if your significant other is still telling you that you are beautiful and showers you with love that is the only person that should matter. Some just have hoe souls, it 's who they are. You ever hear the saying, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife"? That stands true for men as well! You can't turn a trick into a man! As you get older some mature and realize that you can't have sex with all of them. Maturity will tell you that in order to be happy one special person will do. Now there are exceptions to the rule, you know the ones that believe in have more than one significant other. If that works for them than cool, but don't think they don't have problems either. I will leave that for another time.
Some people believe that their personal lives are just for them and not the world and in reality this is the truth! Social media will not solve your problems, everyone that says they are praying for you are not, your prayers are good enough. All men don't want other men looking at their women 24/7, jerking off to their pictures and fantasizing about them. Oh, you don't think that behind the scenes this shit is happening? It's some really sick individuals on social media. Sometimes not sharing is best, it doesn't mean your not proud of who your with. Your relationship will be just fine without Social media! Keep your head on the swivel, keep you eyes moving, keep your ears open and watch peoples actions. Somethings are best shared just between you and your significant other, the world doesn't need to be involved. Some of the people you think are solid are weak and love that extra attention they are receiving from strangers. Watch who you are in a relationships with as well! You would be surprised! These hoes ain't loyal! Lol! That's mean and women. Keep your business to yourself sometimes! WSY? RELATIONSHIPS! Keep it Positive!
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