The saying hurt people hurt people. Is this a true statement, well of course it is! In the minds of those who know only hurt and defeat their only course of action is to bring others down with them. They have no remorse for others, no sympathy and no knowledge of how to break the mental curse they are living with. The devil speaks to their spirit and tells them to behave badly, it seems like that's the only thing that brings them joy. The hurt they felt or feel is one they don't know how to overcome. They have no positive people in their lives that they are willing to listen too. Some have no soul which means they have no God in their lives. The surroundings of these type of people are cut from the same cloth. They do things to numb the pain like stay high, stay drunk, fight all the time, speak negative about everything and always tell those with hopes and dreams that it will never work, break up happy homes etc...
Miserable people are like babies, needing to be guided in the right direction, they need to learn how to process things, they need to hear and see positive things in their lives to understand that there is something better than what they see on a daily. These people are afraid that you might make it out of the negative and become something, leaving them to deal with all the stress and negatives alone. Misery loves company and that miserable person will try to break a good person down, beat up his beautiful woman, talk down to their spouses or significant others, speak to her guy like he is weak, tell their children they will never amount to anything, they will never see the good in anything. I guess if the miserable are teaching than the apple they are rising won't fall to far from the miserable tree, huh? These people are afraid of failing, not realizing that failure leads to growth. Failure shows you how to conquer the mistakes you made before. Failure gives you the strength to beat the odds. Failure is energy, it's adrenaline, it's the fuel you need to keep going.
You have to be taught that the pain you are suffering now from that lost job, that failed relationship, whatever that negative thing was that hurt you to the core will not last always. That pain you felt shall pass and then, right there you have to make a decision to make. Do you continue to be bitter and angry and not try or do you take a step in the right direction to become something better? That misery that you are holding on to will cause you to stress out and stress can kill you. The name of this game is to win, not to be jealous of anyone, not to belittle anyone, not to rain on people's joy and accomplishments and to mind your own business! Those people who are always angry will drain your energy, they will try to put you in harms way and make you do things that will bring trouble to your door step. You have to be smarter than the negatives around you, think about all the things you stand to lose if you join the miserable team. They never win, they always lose and on top of that it's always someone else's fault when things don't go their way. They will however fake it and make it look like they are successful and happy to lure you into their negative web of deceit. Miserable people never slow down to take a look in the mirror, it hurts to bad. They never slow down long enough to think just maybe the problem is me.
Pray for the weak minded and move on with your positive vibes and lives! The road to success will be curvy and bumpy at times, but you have to keep on moving. The journey is the lesson, the success is the discipline it took to keep you focused. Misery is that of the devil trying to keep you down so you can go work for them. I said them because the devil is him, her, the devil is person, place and things! Keep your head on the swivel at all times. Some miserable people present themselves as nice positive people trying to get close to you, they want to get to know you so they can use things against you later to bring you down, they will lie steal and kill! Stay focused! Stay prayed up and ask God for direction, ask God to remove them from your life, rebuke them and their actions. If you feel uneasy around certain people or in certain situations that is your spirit telling you that something isn't right, listen to it and depart from it!
If God isn't in it, it means nothing! Being miserable is a choice, you don't have to stay there. WSY? RELATIONSHIPS! Keep it Positive!
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