The season we all have been waiting for! When I say we, I mean the fellas! The sun is out, the temperature is in the 80's and 90's and in some places it's 100 degrees and above. It's too hot for clothing. The lakes are full of people enjoying their time with friends and family on their boats, yachts, swimming at the beach, lakes and rivers. Water skiing is taking place and people are gathering at the park. It's vacation time and people are catching flights to hot party spots like Florida, California, Arizona, Las Vegas and places abroad. There is nothing like getting away with your friends and family enjoying a summer get away to soak up the sun, meet new people and create new memories. Money is getting spent, women are getting flown out, fellas are throwing pool parties and flossing is at an all time high. The fellas are pulling out the high dollar whips, old school classics hitting the streets, new Lambos, Ferrari's, Corvettes, Benzo's, BMW's and anything that can be recreated is out there. Shout out to the ladies and the fellas on the two wheel monsters eating up the streets as well. Air BNB's are fully booked and everyone is having a great time.
It's hot girl summer y'all and everyone is trying to hook up or find that special someone they can spend a little quality time with, no strings attached. We outside having fun. The fellas spent their winter in the gym trying to get in shape to show off for the ladies and the ladies were doing the same thing. Summer bodies are in full effect! It's bikini season and we love it! It's ab season and the ladies love it! This is the season where we appreciate the hard work everyone put in to be sexy! We eating good, drinking good, having a great time at the beach parties and hotel parties and after parties etc... It's all good!
There however is something we need to address and I'm sure it has been addressed, I know I have addressed it before. Everyone isn't going to the gym, because that isn't for everybody. There is a bad side to hot girl summer. Everyone isn't dressing appropriately! Everyone woman can't wear a bikini and every man shouldn't be showing everything as well. However, there is a way that everyone can enjoy the summer without grossing everyone out. We should all be aware of how we look and how we act during the summer months. Everything isn't for everybody and ladies if you are letting your girlfriend go out looking a hot mess, you are not her friend. If baby girl is stepping out in an outfit that doesn't fit her body shape it is your responsibility to pull her coat tail and let her know that baby girl respectfully that outfit is not for you. She should take heed to what you are saying , realize that you are a true friend and go and change into something more complimentary to her body type. The same with the fellas, we know that some feel that their is no shame in showing their ass in those little ass shorts, but brother don't no woman want to see that and you should also be aware that there will be other fellas around, so why are you showing your ass to the fellas? That shit isn't cool!
It's hot girl summer and that does not mean act a fool, sleep with everyone that smiles in your direction, act unlady like and do all the things that you will regret later. You as a woman should be your best woman you can be. Your flex is your beauty, your booty and your intellect and your ability to keep it grown woman. Respect yourself and make sure that everyone that approaches you respects you as well. Respect yourself, you don't have to be half naked to be considered gorgeous. Leave a little something to the imagination and make him earn his way into your space. Don't be so easy, but don't be disrespectful as well! Fellas respect yourself as well and don't treat your Queens as just something to smash. Don't get me wrong, I know that is all some of you set out to do, just know there are consequences and repercussions that come along with your bad discussion making.
Relax, it's time to enjoy yourselves and network. Get to know the people that are around you and make lifelong connections, business connects or maybe lifelong friends or future husbands and wives. It's time to reel some of the disrespect back in. Some of you need to put the Hennessy down and sip on something a little lighter. Stay in control of your faculties so you don't make bad discussions. Hot girl summer is still being responsible. Even though the title of this blog is "Hot Girl Summer", the men need to take heed too and be respectful and not act like savages when it comes to the ladies. Women love a guy that is respectful, masculine and is in control of his actions. Everyone doesn't need to be thugged out! Listen, every laid back fella isn't a punk and every thug isn't tough! Be who you are and the right one will be sent your way. Enjoy your summer and be safe. Don't follow the wrong crowd because you are great and we need you to provide whatever your positive profession is you have to bestow upon the world! You matter!
Enjoy your summer! Have fun, live love and laugh and respect yourselves, stay in your right minds, don't get to drunk or to high, dress appropriately and keep your heads on a swivel at all times. Don't follow the crowd and make the right decisions because your lives may depend on it! Hot girl summer and Big boy season let's have safe fun together! WSY?
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