It seems that in these days and times glorifying sex and being a sexy object is the norm. I don't really see the respectful well dressed individuals in our youth. Don't get me wrong I know we have them, but it seems that the negative gets glorified the most. Sex is pushed through social media and our entertainers are always naked, or so it seems. What we have to be careful with is knowing that everything we do is being watched by our young children and they copy everything they see. The first examples our children have is us, so be careful what you display when they are around. Be careful what you say around them and when it is just grown folks talking, keep them away from the conversation. We owe them our best so that they can grow up to be their best selves.
With all of that being said lets focus on the title of this post "Head and Hygiene"! Sex is being pushed more and more, but there is a lot that goes along with sex. Safety is so important and it needs to be talked about to our young adult children who may be thinking about experimenting in some sexual escapades. While everyone is trying to score there needs to be a class on cleansing the body. Nowadays the young and old men alike require woman to give them fellatio or oral sex for those who do not know what that means. Oral sex is loved by both men and women and while men expect it women also expect for it to happen as well. Respect yourself and your partner and know that special thing you do is not for everybody.
Before you go downtown remember that you have to be clean in those special areas. No man wants to put his face between the thighs that smell like a fish farm and no woman wants to partake on the stick of stank! This act is supposed to be special, but now a days people are putting their mouths on any and everything. I was talking with a teenage young lady and she was telling me about how her boyfriend at the time was pressing her to do something she didn't want to do, I responded with always respect yourself and never give anyone power over you. Know your worth and just maybe that is not the guy for you. If he loves you he will respect your wishes and he will wait until you are ready. I also suggested that waiting until you really learn who you are, understand why you want to do somethings in life, ask questions, read books about it and make a conscientious decision about what you want to do with your body and what are the consequences of your actions. This goes for young men as well.
Getting back to the matter at hand, hygiene is very important or at least it should be. Do not and I repeat do not put your mouth on anything that has been walking around all day without being properly cleansed! Nasty private parts are no good for anyone. It's a recipe for disaster! Bad hygiene can lead to the carrying of germs. It's okay that you think you have skills in the head department, but again it's not for everyone. Did your momma ever tell you to not put everything in your mouth, well this is a big one! Women should be teaching their young ladies how to act accordingly with respect for selves and how to properly clean their vaginas, clean up under their fupas, clean the navel area and of course that backside! The same goes for the men. Wash your boys and your general! There is nothing like having a woman compliment how good you smell and how good it looks! For the adults, setting the mood starts with proper cleaning. In the summer time you need to wash your ass more than once, don't be sweating and trying to stick your funky man cane down her throat. Respect her even when she doesn't respect herself. That goes both ways, ladies don't be opening those legs knowing the cave smells like the bats just left!
The moral of the story is to be selective and keep it clean! We are all grown and we know how that feeling will creep up on you and you have to have it right now, but if right now ain't the right time call for a timeout and go get that thang freshened up. The whole experience is so much better when it's FRESH! Some may be asking why did I write this and I will tell you it's because there are a lot of nasty people out here and all I see is ass in the air everywhere on social media, at the parties, on videos etc... RELATIONSHIPS! Keep it Clean! WSY?
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